Grace,

I'm 69 years old, been married twice. The first time 14 years, now 30 years and going strong. I became a Christian at age 40 shortly after meeting my wonderful husband. Today, I understand why God wants us to save ourselves for marriage. He loves us and want what's best for us. He wants couples like you to have the best relationship possible. Not having all that sexual baggage brought into your marriage is a huge plus. I loved what you said about loving each other before sex. After 30 years, you'll be surprised at how already great sex is even better and it all has to do with the foundation of love beyond the passion in the bedroom. Sorry for the long response but you really touched me with your story.