Helping someone is not about emptying their cup and filling it with your water. It’s about asking them if they want to taste what you have in your cup. If they agree, add a little spoon of your water inside their cup and ask them to take a sip. This way, you preserve the flavor of their water while adding a little bit of yours. You don’t overwhelm them or shock their reality; instead, you slowly and calmly influence them to se…