I vote option 4. What a jerk!! I can't imagine how hard it is for you young gals today with the online dating. A life time ago, when I was single, I had a guy pursue me with this line: "I've been thinking it might be nice to have a woman to wash my socks again." Bleh! Bleh! Bleh! I hope you find a partner who admires your accomplishments. Please don't settle for less.